Heb 8:10 For this is the covenant that I will make with the house of Israel after those days, saith the Lord; I will put my laws into their mind, and write them in their hearts: and I will be to them a God, and they shall be to me a people:
Heb 8:11 And they shall not teach every man his neighbour, and every man his brother, saying, Know the Lord: for all shall know me, from the least to the greatest.
Heb 8:12 For I will be merciful to their unrighteousness, and their sins and their iniquities will I remember no more.
I can't even begin to number the times I have heard people blame God for bad things that have happened . Somehow people have gotten the idea that God is responsible for everything especially if it's bad. Not so. God made this planet then turned it over to us to manage and do with as we would. We, you and I are responsible.
Now how can we be responsible for hurricanes and the devastation they bring , or earthquakes that kill thousands. Obviously we are not, those are natural processes of this planet. Still the misery is not God's fault.
Same way when disaster strikes closer at home. A loved one dies in an accident, not God's fault. A baby dies at birth, Not God's fault, a divorce, not God's fault. The list is endless of the things we blame God for. We think that since he is this Loving Cosmic Father, all powerful, that we should never experience anything bad and if we do then it's His fault.
God has limited His power through two means, the first is free will, the second is the covenants he has given us.
Quit blaming God, it doesn't change a thing.
See if you had any part in the problem, if you did then ask His forgivness. If you didn't then, accept that it is a situation that is out of your hands and lean on God for both understanding and a Fathers comfort.
May God bless you and keep you